I have a boyfriend of 2 years and whe we first met he had female friends and I had Male friends, so I've always felt like the opposite sex causes a lot of confusing so I rearly talk to my guy friends but he still communciate with his female friends via text message,Myspace,or however. I want toknow should I have a problem and I have a couple of problems with like 3 of his friends and he still talk to them.(Should I be upset?) Also keep in mind when I run into my male friends and I talk to them it's a HUGE Problem. What should I do? I don't like it even though he says I should'nt worry about no other females.
Friends of Opposite Sex and if it's o.k.?
thats kind of hypocritical of him. if you cant talk to your guy friends without him making a big deal, then he shouldnt blow off your concern of his girl friends. if yall have been together for 2 years u guys should be able to talk this out and reach a compromise.
Friends of Opposite Sex and if it's o.k.?
trust =) i'm a guy....my best friend's a girl...and she has a boyfriend...wat's wrong with that....we msg..talk on the phone for hours...go out together...and the boyfriend doesn't have a problem with that..so....wat i think u should do is to hav a proper talk with ur boyfrien...set a line...for the things that u think he shouldn't do and vice versa ya...hav a nice day now =P
Friends of Opposite Sex and if it's o.k.?
I don't see anything wrong with Opposite Sex Friends. I'd talk to my friends, let him talk to his, and when he kicks up some dust over my male friends, I'd remind him of his own situation. To hell with his double standard!
Friends of Opposite Sex and if it's o.k.?
to be 100 % honest with you, i dont know im not fit to answer this because i dont know the exact situation, i think its wrong of him to get angry with you for talking to your guys friends mean while he still talks to his female friends, i think you should talk to him about this because he needs to understand thats its not neccisarilly that you dont trust him, its just that you want to know that your more inportant then them?,, am i right.. if so then maybe the two of you can come to an agreement, maybe that the two of you are BOTH aloud to talk to your other friends, but cant hang out with them unless the other person is there too, i wouldnt be upset about my boyfriend having female friends, unless he gave me a reason to be jeleouse, like if he was flirty with them or payed more attention to them, and you said you have a prob with 3 of them, assuming that thats why you dont like them i'd say tell him how you feel, tell him its not fair that not only are you not aloud to hang out with your friends but he is also hanging out with people you do not like, if you've mad it two years im sure there's something there between the two of you and i wouldnt worry about him cheating, but its not right if your jeleouse, the best way to deal with this is talk to himlet him know everything that you are feeling, the only things i would be upset about is that he hangs out with people you dont like, and that your not aloud to hang out with your friend but he can hang out with his, the two of you need to talk and come to an agreement thats fair for both of you. good luck..
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