I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

Ok. This is dumb. But i've been going out with this girl for like 4 months now. She lives like 2 hours away but we talked every day either on instant messenger, phone and text or myspace. Then usually one day a week we would go out and meet up. We've went on a trip for 3 days together once also and have gotten a hotel and stayed the night a couple times. We were really close. Like I really loved her. Well last sunday we kinda had plans but i couldn't get a hold of her all day. The next day she told me she had a stomach ache. Then the rest of the week we didn't really talk too much (she's never on instant messenger anymore). But I texted her a few times when she was at work and she answered a few. Then Friday came around and I thought may I would just wait for her to contact me first this time (because over the last week I've been the one trying to contact her) well nothing. Saturday I called, text and myspaced her. Same today. Nothing. Whats wrong? The last time I talked all was fine!

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

Oh my gosh! You know I met my ex-boyfriend and we had communicate almost the same way. I really love this guy but just recently I found out that he was with somebody else, well more that one. He lives in Texas and I live in Cali... it's way farther away from you and your girl, but like I said similar experience. I can think of two things that might of happened. The first one you probably wont like but here it goes, she might be going out with somebody closer to her, somebody that lives around her area, it sucks but it can be a reality, she is probably dating somebody else. Or believe it or not people around her and telling her "that there is no way you can have this type of relationship, you cant trust somebody that lives two hours away, you know he is with somebody else", do you understand? Some people can be so mean, and they might be putting ideas in her head, to leave this "nonsense" relationship with you and find somebody closer to her. That is what I believe that might be happening, either way you need to ask her straight out "what is going on" she is the only one that can give you the right answer...God Bless

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

No. You'll be fine. But I would call her now.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

sounds like she lost interest or is dating someone else. Honestly she has found someone else and doesnt want to hurt your feelings so she is just avoiding you....

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

Not worried, but I would follow up

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

something might have happened and she's really busy. don't worry. she will probably contact u soon.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

Sorry to say she's most likely playing you. Long distance relationships do not work. You should move on and find someone closer to you. I wish you the best.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

Maybe she has another boyfriend where she lives. i wouldnt be too worried about it, if she hasnt contacted you. I wouldnt worry about it.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

Wait and see how things play out...she may be getting scared(thinking maybe things are going to fast)...give her time and space. I think she will come around...leave her alone(completly) for a day or two..and she what she does next.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

you are going to hate to hear this but she has found someone else and is either sleeping with him or at least wanting to she is keeping you on a back burner in case it doesn't work out then she will break it off with you. you are a long ways off but her new one is close that is the difference she just hasn't told you yet get back to me I will bet 2 to 1 that is what is going on.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

She's is playing games b/c she probably found someone else. Sorry, but it has happened to me b-4, she is answering some of your calls in case this doesn't work out she will have you on hold and keep you waiting. don't wait for her just give it up and work hard to forget her and enjoy the fact you got some out of it at least you got something and forget her we don't need to play no HO games screw them girls move on and have fun.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

You need to give it more time and try to stay busy...easier said then done. I never worry about something unless someone tells me something disturbing. If she hasnt answered by now, give it a week. You never know something may have happened. I don't know what was said in your texts or messages, kinda hard on here, to her. Anything can happen to make a person lose touch when you live far apart. If you really love her and think she maybe in some danger or hurt, pay a visit to her home. Face to face to settle things once and for all. After everything, it's the most she could do for you. Just be strong and do your best to remain calm. Take care.

I haven't talked to my girlfriend in 3 days should I be worried?

Don't call her melonhead... MOVE ON...

You smothered her to death with all of your messages, etc...

You are not being a challenge to her, and all women want a challenge...

When are you guys going to learn this easy, easy principle...

You're finished, you're TOAST...

STOP SMOTHERING WOMEN WITH FEELINGS, AND LOVE, AND CALLING EVERY MINUTE OF THE DAY, ETC...

IT'S OVER...

YOU WON'T GIVE ME THE BEST ANSWER FOR SAYING SO, BUT MARK MY WORDS...

IT IS OVER...

You don't want to hear it, but you are through...

The next woman you meet, STOP SMOTHERING WITH LOVE...

And feelings, and calling, and trying to define what it is you exactly have...etc...

BE A CHALLENGE...

BE A MYSTERY

Where is the mystery for her???

You call, and message every two minutes...

She is SICK OF YOU...

Swallow what I am saying and swallow it well...

And don't listen to this DOOZY chick who tells you to contact her...

GO OUT, MEET MORE WOMEN, AND STOP CALLING THEM ALL OF THE TIME ETC....

You kinda had plans, but couldn't get a hold of her all day...lol

Not a good sign, I'll guarantee that you and her are through...

She's never on instant messenger anymore, because she doesn't want to talk to you...lol

ARE YOU BLIND???

OBVIOUSLY YOU ARE...

I KNOW I AM BEING HARSH ON YOU, BUT YOU HAVE TO LEARN BY YOUR MISTAKES...

I LEARNED THE HARD WAY MYSELF...

YOU ARE WEARING YOUR HEAT ON YOUR SLEEVE...

DO NOT CALL OR TEXT HER ANYMORE%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;

TAKE MY ADVICE...

IGNORE HER...

Go find another woman...

Often a woman like her, after you ignore her for awhile...

Will, contact you again, because she likes the attention you give her...

and once you give her some attention, she'll ignore you again, and this game can go on forever....

Stomach ache...

SO WHAT???

Is she in a coma...

Women lie all of the time when they don't want to see a guy...

You've been too much of a NICE GUY with her, telling your feelings, etc... and thinking that life is a hollywood movie, and it is not...

GUYS, STOP CALLING WOMEN...

STOP CHASING THEM...

STOP TELLING THEM YOUR FEELINGS...

IF A WOMAN LIKES A GUY, SHE WILL CHASE THAT GUY...

IF A WOMAN LIKES A GUY SHE WILL MAKE TIME TO SEE HIM...

EXCUSES, AND BEING BUSY...

Which alot of women say...

I was just too busy to call, too busy, this, busy that...

Don't fall for this garbage...

REMEMBER IF A WOMAN LIKES YOU, SHE WILL SPEND TIME WITH YOU...

SHE WILL FIND A WAY...

IT'S ALL OVER NOW MY FRIEND%26lt; EXCEPT FO RTHE CRYING...

SO, YOU BETTER START MOVING ON WITH YOUR LIFE...

You won't choose this as the best answer because this is what you do not want to hear...

You want to hear that she is still interested in you...

IT'S OVER...

But, as you look back upon this down th eroad, you'll realize that what I am telling you now is 100% correct...

Why do all you dudes fall for this certain one girl, ???

And if she ignores you etc...

You go crazy, and call a thousand times etc...

THERE IS NO BIGGER TURN OFF TO A CHICK THAN A GUY WHO IS CALLING ALL TH ETIME, TELLING HIS FEELINGS DAY AND NIGHT, AND ASKING HER HOW SHE FEELS ALL THE TIME...

JUST ENJOY IT...

When you are with a woman, just enjoy your time with her, and stop making all of these plans for the future...

Take it one day at a time...

Be a little mysterious...

let her be wondering if how you feel, let her wonder if you two will ever go out again...

KEEP WOMEN IN SUSPENCE...

KEEP THEM INTRIGUED

BE A CHALLENGE...

WHERE IS THE CHALLENGE FOR HER???

SHE KNOWS SHE HAS YOU...

SHE KNOWS YOU ARE INSECURE...

I bet you told her she was your everything as well, and told her you'd do anything for her, etc,etc... and on, and on...

THESE ARE THE DUMBEST MISTAKES THAT YOU CAN MAKE WITH WOMEN, ESPECIALLY IN THE BEGINING OF A RELATIONSHIP...

ANYWAY, YOU ARE TOAST...

AND REFRAIN FROM CALLING HER, OR MESSAGING, ETC...

SAVE A LITTLE PRIDE FOR YOURSELF...

GO FIND OTHER WOMEN TO HANG OUT WITH, ETC...

BECAUSE IT'S OVER AND DONE...

YOU CAN'T SEE IT, NOR DO YOU WANT TO BELIEVE IT, BECAUSE YOU ARE INVOLVED IN IT...

BUT, THE WRITINGS ON THE WALL...

IT'S OVER...

So, my as well start seeing other women...

Sometimes, that the best revenge as well...lol

IT'S OVER

IT'S OVER

IT'S OVER

GET IT INTO YOU'RE HEAD...

SAD, I KNOW...

BUT, TRUE...

I really wish you the best...

I learned the hard way too...

JUST LIKE I HOPE YOU LEARN FROM THIS EXPERIENCE...

You're being too nice, MR. NICE GUY ALWAYS LOSES WITH WOMEN...

AND DON'T LISTEN TO ANYONES ADVICE WHO TELLS YOU TO KEEP CALLING, AND TOO WORK IT OUT, ETC...

FIRST OF ALL...

TH E WOMEN WHO GIVE YOU THIS ADVICE, DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU AT ALL... AND WANT TO SEE YOU "SQUIRM" EVEN MORE...

AND THE GUYS WHO GIVE IT, DON'T KNOW HOW TO PLAY THE GAME...

I'm surprised that it lasted four months, with the way you have been going on...

STOP TELLING WOMEN THAT YOU LOVE THEM AS WELL, AND PAYING THEIR WAY, AND ON, AND ON...

YOU DON'T HAVE TO BUY A WOMEN ATTENTION OR LOVE...

GET A BACKBONE GUYS FOR GEEZ SAKES...

BE A MAN...

HAVE A BACKBONE...

MOST OF YOU DUDES ON HERE ARE JELLYFISH WHEN IT COMES TO WOMEN...

YOU ASK, SHOULD YOU BE WORRIED...

NO NEED TO WORRY...

THIS RELATIONSHIP, OR WHATEVER IT WAS...

IS NULL, AND VOID...

YOU CAN TAKE THAT TO THE BANK...

WHATEVER YOU DO.... DON'T GO AND VISIT HER BY SURPRISE... YOU ALREADY ARE COMING OFF AS A STALKER TYPE TO HER, SO WHATEVER YOU DO...

DO NOT VIST HER... TO SEE IF SHE IS O.K, OR WHATEVER EXCUSE YOU HAVE FOR A SURPRISE VISIT...

IN THE FUTURE DO NOT SMOTHER A WOMAN...

YOU WILL LEAN THIS AS TIME GOES BY...