Should i be mad or not?

Today is my 16 b-day and my best friend didnt even wish me a happy birthday (we are on fall break so i didnt see her in person) but not a call, text or myspace message. When i text her just kidding around saying "oh thanks for wishing me happy b-day s!ut" (we call eachother that all the time) she then said "oh yea happy b-day sry" like it was no big deal at all! Should i be mad or let it go? I mean it did hurt my feelings.

Should i be mad or not?

First of all happy birthday. Okay, if you guys are the ones who are like silly not in a bad way, where you guys celebrate anything that comes to each other, make a big deal of something special to you guys, and if you guys did do things before for each other birthdays than you should. If you guys are really close where you trust each other with everything, than i think you shoud. If you guys are that open with each other, than you should, casue if she's your best friend and she knows you, she's know that it's your bday and if she doesn't say anything than it will hurt you, and even if you guys are not best friend, come on it's your 16th bday. On the other side, if you guys knew each other for a long time, than i wouldnt ruin it over this. But she better have a good reason for forgetting your bday. So before deciding whether you should or not, talk to her and find out the reason. If it's something big, tell her how you felt and what you thought, and if it's not big than you should get mad because she's supposed to be your best friend, than what if one day she forgot other personal stuff, or some other things, think about it, please don't stress about it, and hopefully you had a nice bday.

Should i be mad or not?

let it go, may be for this time she is also hurt

Should i be mad or not?

Get over yourself...

grow up...

and you are reported for adult content...

foul language...

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let it go mayb shes 4getful like me (lol) but anyway happy birthday

-lola%26lt;3

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that is sad. I am sorry. hey is she older or younger than you? maybe she wishes she was 16 may be she a Lil Jealous. lol:) seriously sounds like she forgot she said oh yeah.. I do that when I forget something and maybe she has been so preocupide you will forget all about it in a few days.

hey really you guys should not be kiding around using that word though.

Did u have a sweet 16 party ? If so did you invite her ?

Happy Birthday sweet 16!!!!

Should i be mad or not?

of course you should be mad. she's acting like your 16th birthday has no significance at all, it's just a "whatever" situation. if she was your real friend she would've called and told you HAPPY BIRTHDAY=] tell her how you feel and ask her why she did what she did. communication is KEY, if you ignore the situation, it'll just build up inside of you and it'll set as a bad foundation for everything else she does bad.

Should i be mad or not?

geez! Let it go! 30 years from now you are not going to remember that you had to remind her, but you will remember the good times you had together.

Edit: Oh, sorry... HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Should i be mad or not?

Nobody can tell you whether you should be mad or not - it's how you feel. If you feel mad then you feel mad and you have a right to feel that way. I'd feel hurt if my best friend didn't even comment on my birthday but I know other people that couldn't care less. If you're mad then just speak to her about it - better than letting it simmer and it getting worse!

One last thing fyouimatwirp - yes indeed you are! Leave the poor girl alone! There was nothing offensive in what she wrote - get a life

Should i be mad or not?

I'm pissed off just reading this. Yes, you should be mad. It was incredibly inconsiderate. How long have you been best friends? "oh yea happy b-day sry"?! What a jerk.

Should i be mad or not?

Be mad for a minute, let it sting....then let it go. She probably feels worse than she's letting on.

Should i be mad or not?

i wouldn't be mad, just bummed and disappointed. after all, she is your best friend!

Should i be mad or not?

no worries ...let it go..im sure theres a reason...why..to it. i know it hurt seem like she didnt care...but im sure there will be an answer why she didnt greet you on your bday.

Should i be mad or not?

Crap. And she's your best friend, oh no tsk tsk shame on her.

Did she forget or did she forget to get a present? Maybe thats why she was ashamed to wish you a Happy B-Day empty handed. Since you two are best friends, she should be the first to tell you a Happy B-day, she ought to know and remember first. You can get mad, but that one change anything unless you confront her about it. Ask her what if it was her birthday and you didn't wish her a Happy Birthday until she brought it up.

Or, you can do the same on her B-Day, just to let her know how it feels. Ouch.

Good luck with you and your friend.

Should i be mad or not?

The Bible says Be angry and sin not. There are reasons to be/get angry. Jesus got very angry...but He did not go off and let others however disfunctional and/or close to Him make Him act out and compound the problem.

Should i be mad or not?

If you're a good friend to her and she is a good friend to you then you should let it go. It's just like teenagers in today's day and age to get mad at someone for forgetting a birthday. Sounds to me like it was an honest mistake.

And you should stop calling each other sluts because that is a nasty word no matter how much you are kidding, and not good for any friendship no matter how seriously you say it.

But yeah, definitely let it go. She just forgot it. I mean, what if you forgot her birthday and she got all pissy at you for it and shoved you off for it? That seems really kind of stupid on your part and if I were your friend I would be like "Dang she is shallow and can't recognize a mistake if it were George Bush slipping on a banana peel." Seriously, that is practically just the same as your friend forgetting. Just what I think.

-copper_297

Should i be mad or not?

get over with it..............stop behaving like ELEMENTARY SCHOOL kids.......everybdy in this world forgets something or the other.......maybe she got involved in some work....or was busy.....maybe that's y she forgot about it........or maybe she didn't get time 2 wish u

HAPPY B'DAY

Should i be mad or not?

"donl't just be 1 sided,for that reason only,its to

light reason to let go a best friend!"