Sunday, December 6, 2009

I feel as if my friends are forgetting about my existance?

Ok well I moved across the country about 7 months ago and I left behind the three best friends I've ever had. I could pretty much tell them anything, and we were all completly comfortable with eachother and barely ever fought... But anyways i moved here and a couple of weeks after the move my friends start hanging out with this girl named April. She's extremely annoying and we all very much disliked her before I moved. at first this kind of irked me, since it seemed like they were replacing me, but I dealt with it, since they still acted the same to me on instant messanger, myspace, in text messages, ect. but now, like 5 months later I seem to be the only person who is trying to keep in touch with them. It's ME who is always texted them, its ME who is always calling them (and they never call me back) and its ME who leaves them messages on myspace. So i can only think that maybe they are kind of forgetting/not caring so much about me anymore and i feel like **** all of the time....



I feel as if my friends are forgetting about my existance?

I think thet have moved on. But this might not be true. I suggest you keep trying to contact them. Maybe u should bring up that u feel lonely. Then 4 SPring Break, well, if u see them u will def. no the answer then



I feel as if my friends are forgetting about my existance?

maybe you should try talking to your friends and telling them how you feel .. i dont think you should just throw away your friendship before you talk to them ... the move obviously would've been harder for you then it would have been for them b/c they still had other friends and they didnt have to go all the way across the country but it still was probably very hard for them if you were one of their best friends and maybe they thought they should try to make some more friends in case they lose you .. my best friend moved away not too long ago and the move was very tough for both of us and it's hard to talk to each other all the time since we both are always rly busy and i thought i would lose her as a friend b/c she would make new friends, but we are still best friends... just talk to them and if they are rly your friends and they value your friendship then they will still want to be friends with you even if you are all the was across the country ..



I feel as if my friends are forgetting about my existance?

I know its hard to try and keep in touch with friends that are so far away. Good on you for keeping in touch when things settle down, they may or may not keep it up with you as you say your the one doing all the work. In time you will make new friends and it wont be such a big deal. Moving away from things are always hard but you will find new friends dont give up



I feel as if my friends are forgetting about my existance?

As you get older and move up in life you will notice that old friendships change. Stop worrying about your old friends and start getting out there making new ones. True friends will always be there for you no matter what...I don't know how old you are but start working on meeting people near you and creating new friendships. I have moved around a lot in life and have friends all over the place, that are true friends. I am sure there a lot of great friendships you will make in FL if you give it a chance. School, work and hobbies (mine was horse riding and I made a lot of friends that rode horses) are great places to meet people with stuff in common to you. If your best friends back home are true friends than don't worry about the small stuff.

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