Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Should I call him?

I've been dating a guy for 6 months, he said he would call me back one night and hasn't. It's been 3 days as of today. He's done that before, ending a convo by saying I'll give you a ring latter on today but never does. I havent called him cause I'm frustrated and don't know what move to make. I'm sure I'll see him again, we go to the same college. I hate games, if he's lost intrest why won't he just tell me honeslty? He's 30 we're too old for this ****. What should I do, what should I say to him? Should I call him, text him, myspace him? What should I do? I'm sick of him doing this like it's no big deal.



Should I call him?

A few things might be happening here:



He might have simply become overwhelmed with assignments or work and is afraid to distract himself by thinking of you.



Or, he isn't as devoted to you as he might have led you to believe.



Or, he is hoping to get a call from you indicating that you really are 'into' him.



You two have been dating for six months. If you are guessing at this point your communication so far has been too shallow, you do not know the mind and heart of your friend. Call your friend and when it is possible, have a good heart to heart talk. Don't try to have this when he is rushed.



If he opens up to you, sounds like he is committed toward you, wonderful!



If not, do not invest in this relationship if it isn't going to go forward. Our lives are such fleeting things! We can not stay in the shadow of hope forever.



I hope it all works out for you.



Should I call him?

go for it girl and call him.........



Should I call him?

I think you should let him know all that you have been observing,and all that you feel. I know youre pride tells you not to but yall are to grown to be playin guessing games. Get st8 to the point and make shore you come correct and dont accuse him of doing anything that you might. If you do that and he stil acts the same then he doesnt respect ya feelings and maybe you should look elsewhere.(i know that sounds good from outsiders when its not that easy but sometimes you have to use the outsiders view to get things accomplished) So YES CALL and leave a message if he doesnt pick up and tell him you want to talk.



Should I call him?

Yeah,Just Go For It

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