Is my husband cheating?

A couple of weeks ago my husband went to a party with a coworker, after he'd been giggling and texting with her all evening. He told me he was going to work on a house he and a friend are remodeling, apparently when he was done at the house he went to the party. Now he talks to this person a couple of times a day and they communicate via text and Myspace. Tonight he went to her house for help on a work related project and ended up fixing her sink. He claims he has never lied to me, but this not true - he has lied about things such as being in contact with his ex and looking at p0rn. Is he cheating, or am I over reacting. This is extremely upsetting as we have two children and have been married over 5 years.

Is my husband cheating?

uuummm you have a right to think there maybe more going on that being a good co-worker, hanging out after work....If he has nothing to hide, then wouldn't he invite you to go over as well....I didn't see you mention anything about him asking if you would want to go, even if it's obvious you would not go.....I also didn't see you mention anything about the co-worker being married or single....of course that doesn't matter a whole lot these days I guess....The myspace account kind of bothers me too...but get his password and check the messages....if he doesn't want to give it to you or gets real defensive, then you would have more reason to be concerned and then at that point I would let him know that he is not making you feel all "warm and fuzzy" about things...

Is my husband cheating?

I WOULD KEEP MY EYES OPEN VERY WIDE!

Is my husband cheating?

I would say trust your gut. I thought my husband was cheating and he explained it away, now years later I find out he has been the whole time.

Is my husband cheating?

He is being disrespectful at the very least....I would be PISSED OFF if my husband carried on with another woman this way...I think you should listen to your gut feeling...women are rarely wrong when they get that feeling in their gut.....

Is my husband cheating?

I would say he is cheating and if I was you I would pay them a visit the next time he goes to help her or what ever. See what is really going on.

Is my husband cheating?

he's cheating or at least having an emotional affair

Is my husband cheating?

sounds like a dog to me--wuff wuff

Is my husband cheating?

He should be there for you and your kids..He is your husband, not hers..she can get her own man..tell him this...It is like cheating even if there was no sex involved...he put another woman before yourself..Good luck..put your foot sown now or u will be very unhappy

Is my husband cheating?

He just found a friend.. he's like a kid in a candy store.... Sure hope his new friend don't like lollypops..

Is my husband cheating?

Not only is he cheating, he seems to be doing it right under your nose. I think you should consider the OBVIOUS.

Is my husband cheating?

I would have a very serious conversation with him.....and let him know you are not comfortable with the relationship he's having with this woman.

Lying is never acceptable in a marriage....it kills the trust and with no trust there is no marriage.

Is my husband cheating?

If he has not yet he will .

Is my husband cheating?

He lies and he lies about bad things. He's a liar and he better straighten up because you're on to him and if he values you, he better wake up or you're going to kick him to the curb, right?

Is my husband cheating?

Aw, I feel so bad for you. You need to find out inside yourself what you want, because this man is not honoring and cherishing you as he should be. Whether he is cheating or not (sounds like he is or close to it) is of no cosequence because he is breaking his vows to you. He is not being the husband you need. If you want things to work out then you'd better get started down that road really quickly.

Is my husband cheating?

If you suspect and have to ask............most likely he is. I have never known a man to admit he has cheated on his wife, to his wife. Good luck! Be smart!

Is my husband cheating?

Oh HELL NO!!! DO NOT LET HIM GET AWAY WITH THIS!!

HE is either cheating or about to cherat,,it always starts like this,, end it now if u want to save ur marriage, trust me...i did the same thiunk,, then its led to holding hands, then kissing, then sleeping together,,,next thing u know i moved in with the guy...trust me,,,u need to tell him that it is either her or u!

There must be something missing in your marriage and he finds some relief in the relationship with this other person,,dont be stupid, if he isnt alreay, it will happen,, dont believe him,,he will cheat,,,stop it right friggin now...

ps i used to text this guy all the time too...

Is my husband cheating?

If you suspect something usually you have a reason to. Why don't you first tell him how this is making you feel. If he does nothing to relax you about this situation then go with your gut on this one it's usually right.

Is my husband cheating?

Sounds like he is and he is being very disrespectful to you. You need to sit him down and tell him that he is acting like a single man and he IS NOT%26gt;

Is my husband cheating?

If a person lies a little they will lie a lot. It all sounds fishey to me. You have 2 kids try to work things out . If you find he is still telling lies and hanging around this woman after you and him have a good talk, and you tell him you are not going to put up with this kind of treatment , mabey you and the kids would be better off with out him.

Is my husband cheating?

I believe everyone has the same opinion here and I would have to agree he could just be feeling sorry for her and want to help her "if she is like 80 years old" you might still have a chance in saving this but u might want to step up the beat show him what he's losing put a little more spice in his life yes men are like dogs when there hungry the tend to look for food in other places and when they starving they will dig in the trash 5 years is about the right time for the light to burn out break out the tourch and put it under his a.s.s

Is my husband cheating?

Keep your eyes open and take pictures if you catch them. This sounds suspicious to me, I would look more into it. Check the history of the computer when he is on it. Check your phone records and check his pants pockets.

Is my husband cheating?

He was....

..Giggling and texting with her ALL evening?

...Now he talks....to the same person. A Couple ot times a day?

...And they communicate via text and MySpace?

...He went to her HOUSE...for a "Work related project"?, and he fixed her sink?

And most importantly....

YOU KNOW...he has LIED in the past?

GIRL....Stop this right now.

Is there anyway that you can get some spy softwear installed in your computer?...This came out on Oprah, you missed that episode didn't you?. You must have a friend who can help you with this....Get one...online....do the research.

And get one of your friends to help you set this up, when you know he won't be home for a long time. Get rid of the boxes, far...far....away.

What you need is proof.....proof....to stop this.

Some husbands will stop after they are caught....some don't. But you have children to think about....how long are you going to put up with this I don't know. But there has to be a significant change in him....for you to be able to forgive him, if he is cheating......wich...I think he is....and you think he is as well....or you wouldn't have posted this concern.

If this all ends up in court.....that proof will help you as well.

So get the proof. Even if you have to get in the car and follow him with the camera. He's disrespecting you and your children.

Good Luck,

:-)

Lucy

Is my husband cheating?

ma'am, ASK HIM. and get to counseling... sounds are best that he is having an emotional affair...

get counseling before you guys bleed out before you BOTH harm your children more.

ps: if he is in fact having an emotional affair, he is NOT the only one at fault. you BOTH are. period.

Is my husband cheating?

It sounds like he's thinking about it ..if he already hasn't.

Is my husband cheating?

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